The No-No's to friendship

1. Never sleep with your friend's boyfriend/ex-boyfriend (girl/ex-girlfriend).

This is bad idea not only for your ego but also for the friendship. This is bad for the the ego because the last thing you want to hear is that your friend is better than you in bed. This is bad for the friendship because the last thing you want to hear is that your friend is better than you in bed...lol. But seriously, if your friend broke up with him, something had to have gone wrong in the relationship. And if your friend didn't stand for it...chances are you won't either.

2. Don't live with your friends.

So as a girl this rule may or may not apply to guys. But one thing I have noticed is that females should not live with their female friends. Our attitudes are constantly fluctuating. And once you move in together you will realize that you may be living with a complete stranger. One day you're going to clubs and hanging out until 7:00 in the morning and the next day she may stop speaking to you and blame it on things that EVERYONE deals with. Whether it be school, family, or work we all go through things but it is no reason to cut someone off for no VALID reason. But if you do happen to find yourself in this situation, my Joshy-Poo said it best, "Don't allow someone's change to change you". So even though I find myself in this situation, I think it'll be good for me to remain cordial. But I must admit...it really is a sad situation to find yourself in, especially when there was so much hope and promise before the move in.

3. Do not kiss your friends.

This is only if your friend is of the opposite sex or of the same sex (I do not discriminate based on sexual orientations). So if you are feeling one of your friends and hoping it becomes something more, do not kiss the person then tell them you would like to be more than friends. One, the person may see you only as a friend and you will have this awkwardness in your relationship. Two, if the person you plan on kissing is of the same sex, make sure they know that you are homosexual then make sure they are a homosexual. There is nothing more weird than a gay guy kissing a homosexual guy then they have to fight because someone was violated. This is exempt when your friend displays the affection that you are feeling. At that point, feel free to let the headboards start knocking ;-).